[Well, he's not going to argue that first part, simply because he doesn't see a need to - he may not get her, exactly, but he's not going to be flat-out rude to her either way, because that wouldn't be proper conduct. He's just sort of...admittedly mildly condescending to everyone in addressing them because he's used to his station; he'll be doing the same for her before too long.

That latter part just gets her a bit of a Look, though, just because his default setting is "lonely" - he's made one friend during the Incident he's just coming in from, and that brings his lifetime friendship count to exactly one. So forgive him for the general lack of sympathy here - not because he doesn't care, per se, but because he has no frame of reference.]

In that case, you're just going to have to work hard for yourself during that certain person's absence! It's possible that they will be brought here eventually, the same as we were - until then, there's no sense in being upset about it!